Why Bondassage? How can it help us?
New physical sensations
Bondassage takes you on a new journey of sensual surprises. It’s an entirely new realm of physical sensations—much more than simple pleasure or pain. Maybe you’re a seasoned traveler in the world of BDSM, but want something different. Or perhaps you’re curious about exploring percussion play, sensation exploration, and bondage. Either way, we’ll create an experience that suits your needs.
The exchange of power requires deep trust from the person on the receiving end (submissive). Accepting the transfer of power to the person in control (Dominant) is a loving responsibility, and the dynamic it creates can bring strong emotional intimacy. We’ll teach you how to explore your known (and sometimes unknown) desires in an environment that’s kind, safe, and filled with wonderful surprises.
What if I’m shy, nervous, or uncomfortable?
Boundaries and limits are an essential element of Bondassage. We’re very conscious of your comfort levels at all times and will work with you to move past feelings of hesitation and insecurity. You’re encouraged to be open and honest about any uncomfortable feelings that come up.
What if I don’t want to be tied up?
Then you won’t be tied up. Respect for your limits is always a given.
What if I don’t like what’s happening?
You’re always in control. If you’re uncomfortable, then we stop immediately. With our years of experience, we can usually tell if you’re uncomfortable, but you’re always encouraged to speak up if anything doesn’t feel right.
Does it hurt?
Only if you want it to. Pleasure and pain are commingled sensations, and one often enhances the other, but you decide how far you want to go. People have a wide range of pain tolerance and affinity. Some don’t like pain at all, while others absolutely relish flogging and other types of corporal punishment. It’s always up to you. We’ve seen many people surprise themselves. Some ask for light pain, and then, once we get going, they’ll say, “I kind of like that. Can we have a little more?” If you like, we can start slowly, and we’ll ask you how it feels as we go. We can also teach you how to use your toys correctly and how to care for them.
Are your trainings, classes, and workshops legal?
Yes, education—including kinky education—is 100 percent legal. We’re here to provide guidance in support of your exploration and learning.
Why do different instructors’ rates vary?
Instructors are independent professionals, not employees of Bondassage, and so they set their own rates. Also, instructors are trained in a variety of modalities—including Sensual Massage, BDSM, Tantra, Sexological Bodywork, Fetish, Taoist Erotic Massage, Kink, Reiki, Yoga, and Domination—and rates for these methods can vary.
Is my information and our time confidential?
Privacy is of the utmost importance to us, and we assure absolute discretion.
What if my partner contacts you for a get together without my knowledge?
We’re here to enhance communication and intimacy, and deepen the connection between partners. Open communication is essential to that goal. For this reason, we do not meet with a couple unless both parties agree.
Do you work with single men and women?
Yes, we’re happy to coach and train single men and women. Please review individual instructors’ pages for details of their offerings.
Creating a safe “container”
Once we get started, you may find that you want something different from what we discussed beforehand. We don’t go beyond our agreed experience once it begins, but if you decide that you want to experience something outside of our agreement, we can set up another appointment to create that experience for you.
Is intimacy between partners permitted during the training?
Yes. All we ask is that you allow the anticipation to build until the end of your training session. At that point, we’ll excuse ourselves and give you your privacy.