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Deborah Kat ~ San Francisco Bay Area, US, Europe

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“The heart is the thousand-stringed instrument that can only be tuned with love.” ~ Hafiz

Despite our best intentions, the life-affirming nature of our relationships can sometimes grow stale. Whether you have been together for 20 months or 20 years, My passion is to help you recover and ignite who your truly are so you can have the passionate, purposeful and joyful relationship that is your birthright.

My name is Deborah Kat and I have spent over 25 years exploring the erotic edge, 17 years in a committed relationship.

I was incredibly fortunate to have been born and raised in San Francisco, surrounded by the beautiful California coastline and alternative culture. As founder of the Desire Playground, I lead workshops exploring the edges of sexuality and spirit, that combine my diverse background as a Certified Massage Therapist, Tantric Educator, Desire Coach, and Professional Dominatrix to supports men and couples in clearing shame so they can have the sex and relationship of their dreams. I firmly believe that relationship is an opportunity for spiritual growth.

My specialties include:

Sexual Mastery and Wisdom
Erotic Empowerment
Bedroom Skills and Confidence
Orgasmic Meditation
Connecting with Desire
Turning On Yourself and Others
Kinky Massage
Sensual Receptivity
Relationship Building Rituals

I’m a National speaker on the topics of Sex, Connection, Tantra, TurnOn, and Dark Desire. I have worked with couples nationwide, both in person and over the phone. My formal education includes certification as a Tantric Educator, Bondassage Trainer, and Orgasmic Meditation (OM) Desire Coach. In case you think I am too “woo woo”, I have an undergraduate degree from UC in the philosophy of Law.

Offerings:

Workshops
Immersions

I am available for private phone or Skype coaching sessions ~

150/30 minutes

250/60 minutes

350/90 minutes

 

Locations: US and Europe

 Destination immersions ~ Hawaii, Costa Rica, Italy and beyond

 

Schedule your Bondassage For Couples Coaching today

 

 
 

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